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  1. Cathy wong on

    Another option is to hire a Pui Yuet, aka chinese doula.

    I just want to share some quick tips / opinions about my experience with a chinese doulas ( pui yuet) in the United States. If you live in the west coast, most of the chinese doula live in california. But they are willing to travel to other states as long as you pay for air fare to and from california. They also want cab money to and from their house. Nowadays (2020), they charge $6,000 for 26 days. And they are usually hard to find. It’s usually by word of mouth.

    Pros-
    Doula does take care of baby during day time and night time. But keep in mind.. if baby doesn’t sleep well at night.. doula doesn’t sleep well either.
    They can read babies really well, like they can tell if baby is crying because baby needs to be burped. or is baby sleepy.. or is baby hungry. Is baby sucking the bottle the right way.
    They are very experienced in how to take care of baby.
    They are very good at giving baby baths and giving baby daily baby oil massage rubs.
    They do cook for you and make you healthy soups. But if you are not breastfeeding like me… I didn’t get to drink any of the soups until the last 2-3 days before the doula left. Since the soups can increase your milk supply which is redundant if you are trying to stop your milk.
    They can make a ginger sponge bath for you since you can’t wash your hair or get your whole body wet for a month.
    They cook all your meals and cook extra for your husband to eat too.
    They are willing to bring food up to your room.

    Cons- they can be demanding and want tips.
    Mine wanted the baby breeze bottle cleaner, extra containers for certain things, and kept wanting me to get things from the grocery store every other day with a list.
    Doula wanted a box of gloves to use when cooking, cleaning, and handling baby. Wanted an apron etc.
    Doula wanted disposable face mask to wear and to change every 4 hours.
    Doula did a 2-3 loads of laundry a day. 1 load for baby clothes.. 1 load daily towels. etc.
    And also since they are cooking up a storm everyday.. be prepared to have lots of cooking oil on your walls due to the stir fry dishes and the kitchen having lots of herbs, pots and pans everywhere.
    Also if you are strictly by the book with SIDS… chinese doulas will NOT work for you! They take of the baby the chinese old fashioned way.. which means.. when baby sleeps.. they will roll up a towel or Two and put it near the baby waist and leg area (side of the body). SO that the baby can feel secure and safe when baby is sleeping. If baby is fussy at night.. they will cosleep with baby in bed. Or like mine.. i found the doula holding my baby on her chest in the chair and doula was asleep.

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