Most expat families are accustomed to making relationships with family and friends over long-distance work, but this year, of course, is different. It’s easier to hold onto Zoom hugs and text chats when you have the possibility to see someone in person at least once a year. So what to do this holiday season when you can’t travel home? Here are some little ways to connect with your families and friends that can make a big difference:
Family Tree
A family tree is a great way to show kids all of their relatives and how they are related. Lots of templates are available online to either print or adapt on your own, like this one from the Go Science Girls website. I suggest starting simple and gradually going further back in time, however. I once tried to move into great-grandparent territory and it overwhelmed my youngest son!
Playtime in Games
“What’s your Minecraft name” is the junior version of “What’s your WeChat ID?” Playing games together (safely, of course) helps younger kids bond even over long distances. It immediately gives them a common bond and purpose and offers parents a chance to supervise and model positive online gaming.
Storytimes
My Mom used to tell her grandson stories over video chat when he was a baby and always sang this one song to him. She worried that he, being only a year old, wouldn’t know who she was when they visited again. But as she held him at the airport, sang their song, and you could see an instant flash of recognition in his eyes, then a hug! For the holidays, take turns reading your favorite tales or even sing some carols together to build a new tradition.
Attend a Virtual Show Together
You might think that holding the focus of kids on a Zoom birthday party is impossible, but many skilled performers learned how to do exactly that after theaters shuttered in March. Invite your kids’ friends from across the world to convene for a play that is just for them! One of the best choices out there is “Show Up, Kids!” where the storyline is dictated by the audience. There are also virtual magic shows and clowns, all very cool ways to stay connected with friends and cousins worldwide.
No Occasion Needed
Sure, we try to remember to send cards for the holidays, but why not send one just because? We outlined some great choices for sending cards internationally on beijingkids before, and you know that a grandmother’s day will be so much brighter if she opens her mailbox to find a surprise sentiment inside!
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Photos: Go Science Girls, Peter Michael Marino, Cindy Marie Jenkins, Pexels, Unsplash
